a bit sad.
I have lost a lot of respect for someone I love ever so dearly.
He was someone I looked up to growing up, and I used to look forward to seeing him.
But ever since last year, my views on him changed.
I don’t know who to blame, him or his wife. But whatever made him the way he is, it needs to stop.
It upset me a lot, that him and his wife only visited my mum once during the course of her hospital stay. And she was in hospital for way over a month. Considering how much my mum has helped him over the years. It upset me when he spent loads of time with us in HK a couple of years back, but last year I only seen him 3 times in the whole month I was there.
It pissed me off that he asked us to get him things for my grandparents to take back to HK and I did, and I didn’t get money back or a fucking thanks. I’m glad I didn’t get as much as they asked.
It fucking does my head in that you only speak to us when you want things and when you don’t need favours doing we are dead to you.
I dislike your wife so much because it seems to me that she’s taken away someone that I loved so dearly. Everyone in our family dislikes her, but we are nice to her out of respect for you. Yet you pay no respect to us. 
All you two ever do is find ways to benefit yourselves. What’s treating someone for dinner going to hurt? Nothing. Yet people have to treat you out all the time.
You take things that don’t belong to you, and you don’t ask or even leave money to replace it.
Next time I see you, I won’t treat you the way I would like to treat you, because I’ve lost respect for you.